The past week I’ve been thinking about how to really connect with the people around you, and around the world. What is the secret? I’ve gone on about a dozen trips where some of the people hang out with the people they’re traveling with, and some really connect with the locals.

So what makes the difference?

1. Of the biggest ice-breakers while traveling to some countries is, you guessed it, a camera. Of course in other countries you’ll just look like a tourist, but either way pictures hold great memories of past times. Cameras open so many doors, especially with kids. It’s something to be sensitive about, because not everyone may want their picture taken and the same code of politeness applies to privacy in other cultures, but it can be a wonderful way to connect.

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2. Play some games, interact or just hang out where you can. People are the same around the world, we all want friendship.

3.  Take time to relax and kick back. One of the differences from our North American culture to many others is the way that we’re more uptight and rushed. Often a good way to get to know people is by slowing down the speed long enough to get into their pace.

4.The Rules are simple; just have fun and be yourself.